In a surprising twist on relationship dynamics, some couples are turning to artificial intelligence for guidance in resolving their conflicts. Grace Carter, a 34-year-old New Yorker, found herself on ChatGPT’s platform. She was trying to repair a tumultuous relationship with boyfriend, Lucas Martin. Not surprisingly, this radical strategy has found a following, as evidenced by reports of success from Dom Versaci, Abella Bala, and others.
As she started to face these kind of issues, Carter found herself constantly fighting with Martin, leading her to search for impartial counsel via AI. She said to have found the experience “weirdly reassuring,” and she elaborated that it was a tool that could help her relax while in stressful situations. The experience seemed rather crazy at first, like admitting my secrets to a machine, but it was strangely calming. I had time to cool off and we were hugging each other before long,” she remarked. Through the AI, she experienced that it wasn’t just about being told what to do. Instead, it forced her to clarify her positions and understand her organization’s opposition.
Versaci and Bala seconded Carter’s praise, sharing how ChatGPT has helped them de-escalate their disputes. For instance, they shared that the AI allows them to just have a clearer picture of what each other’s perspectives are. It fires up your imagination while remaining impartial. To be honest, that’s still better than picking up the phone and having a friend go, ‘You’re right,’” said Carter.
Ashley Williams, a licensed mental health counselor, cautions against using technology as a crutch in human relationships. Her observations about the increasing application of AI are alarming. Williams, who is based in New York, emphasized that AI is a tool to help. It can’t do the detailed analysis and tailored approach that skilled practitioners are able to provide. Only licensed professionals can identify deeper issues and more nuanced needs in a relationship,” she said.
The growing reliance on AI for relationship advice has raised eyebrows on social media. A Reddit user expressed concern over his girlfriend’s use of ChatGPT in their relationship, saying, “I’ve explained to her that I don’t like her doing so, as it can feel like I’m being ambushed with thoughts and opinions from a robot.” He shared his concern regarding the AI’s propensity to elevate the perspective of the most privileged individual. This unintentional bias made it difficult to have an honest and fair conversation.
Carter admitted that AI therapy sessions were more affordable than in-person therapy. She expressed that this quality is what makes it such an attractive choice for couples on a budget. The worry that AI could be incorrectly used to bolster arguments persists among many users.
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