Pat Ayres MBE, who founded the Cirencester Eating Disorders Support Group in 2003, is stepping down after 18 years of dedicated service. The group, which has provided a vital lifeline to many, will now be led by Sarah and her 18-year-old daughter Ayla, who both have firsthand experience with the challenges of eating disorders. Pat Ayres was inspired to establish the group when her daughter was diagnosed with anorexia 30 years ago, a time when the disorder was not widely understood or discussed.
Ayres' personal journey began when her daughter became severely unwell, requiring several months of hospitalization and more than a year away from education. Driven by the desire to support others facing similar struggles, Pat Ayres created a space where individuals could find understanding and assistance. The Cirencester Eating Disorders Support Group has since grown into a valuable resource run by volunteers, including parents and individuals who have battled eating disorders themselves.
Sarah, who felt helpless as she watched her daughter Ayla's condition deteriorate during the lockdown, found solace in a London-based support group for parents. Ayla's condition eventually required in-patient care, which highlighted the importance of community support for Sarah.
"I wanted to do something because I just remember how lonely we felt." – Sarah
After experiencing the group's impact firsthand, Sarah is committed to ensuring its continuation. She and Ayla have decided to take over the leadership from Pat Ayres.
"It felt like a bomb had gone off in our lives," said Sarah. "But to go along to the group and see people who had been through it and come out the other side just gave us that hope."
Ayla, who has been seeking new ways to restrict food since returning to school post-lockdown, found great value in the support group.
"It is quite scary to open up to someone because they are going to try and stop you but honestly that is what you need. You need help," Ayla shared.
She emphasized the relief and connection she felt attending the group.
"When you have an eating disorder you feel like you are going insane. So when I went to the group, I was like 'it's not just me.'"
Sarah expressed her gratitude for the group's role during their difficult times and is determined that it continues to serve others.
"I couldn't imagine it not being there for other people," she stated. "It was just such a valuable resource when we were struggling."
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